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I must begin this episode discussing my travels to an on-premise club, the locatation is unimportant as I have personally viewed this issue in personal experiences in many States and Provinces. Although the people we met were extremely nice we found one indistinguishable thread which connected them. Even though they came from:
1) different geographical centers,
2) various ethnic and religious backgrounds,
3) varying body styles covering the gambit of all characters extracted from the height & weight chart,
4) from grand-children to grand-parents, and
5) at least one sample from each and every taxable income category;
with the only filament connecting all in attendance {besides being swingers of course} was that of ignorance.

The "ignorance" was certainly not the definition which you may be accustomed to, it was not a coarse or crassness directed at another individual. The ignorance was simply that of being oblivious to the simplest of swinging practices. We were dumbfounded as to the significant numbers of truly great people, legitimate swingers in every aspect, who were genuinely lost when it came down to the actual "act" of swinging with other individuals. Well adjusted, honest, smart, friendly people who suddenly were stumbling around as if the swinging farmer had cut of their heads as a hen just prior to the Thanksgiving feast. Bodies were flopping around being jerked and tossed around by the sheer force of nerves and reflexive, spontaneous nerve endings.

It seemed as if when push was just about to come to shove, these individuals reverted back in their personal history to the moment just preceding their first kiss with someone other than Gramma and Aunt Bessy. It was amusing and however alarming that these representatives of corporate America, with whom we entrust our countries existence during the week, had suddenly reverted back to the societal and emotional maturity of a virgin teenager.

For all of you reading this for the purpose as to dissecting negatives about our lifestyle and the persons of significance administering it, I'm sorry to pull your happiness right out from under your spitefulness. We believe that this observed condition might not be the negative condition which you were assuming we meant. This na´vetÚ or innocence is a sectional root of the pure basis of swinging. There is one precise moment when one couple fumbles through their thoughts and emotions trying to accumulate the "perfect" words needed to inform another couple that you are interested in taking your friendship to a sexual level. It is interesting that at that moment individuals become indistinguishable counterparts. No matter your make-up prior to that exact moment in time, each person becomes the same. Forgetting age, race, status etc. all swingers are alike in their feelings and this is the ultimate positive for forming a solid cornerstone in this culture.
The reason why the majority of utopian swingers stay in the lifestyle is this unconscious understanding that the seed of swinging is when the participants are totally equal at that moment. From a starting point where everyone is on an even plane the growth for all concerned is unlimited. When no predetermined class system exists it allows for a free flowing evolution within the society. As one man once said "I can be an asshole at a swinging party and aren't judged an asshole until afterwards, at home people just think I'm an asshole before they know me". I'm not sure that this is best analogy especially because it was said in jest however the underlying message was certainly clear. No matter what you drive up in, everyone knows that when approaching another couple to discuss being intimate with them, everyone goes through the same impassioned nervous state therefore creating a "sameness" to all involved.

Next time your involved in a swinging experience and "The Moment" is about to occur we can only hope that your subconscious side shall remember "This Moment" reading this article and will "Go softly into that good night and enjoy the future of swinging now that you have established an invisible level dawn".



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